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What are you not saying, that if you spoke the truth of, would elevate your relationship? When you consciously allow your protective strategies of anger, or avoidance to dissolve, what you’re left with is a really authentic connection and communication, where you stop relying on performance, and old, learnt habits.
So let us help you get more fulfilled in your relationship, quickly!
In this episode we discuss:
- Resistance to getting support, and relying on hyper self-sufficiency as a trauma response
- When you stop exposing your vulnerability because of old experiences of abandonment and criticism
- Becoming a hoarder of tasks and mental load
- Learning to love the eruptions and disconnections as opportunities for a more fulfilling relationship
- Showing up in the face of fear of rejection and abandonment
- Recognising your strategies when someone you love is angry with you
- Defending what you think is ‘right’ is you being defensive of your highest values
- We need to give to the bank of relationship to be able to withdraw from it
- Knowing what you want is more important than knowing what you don’t want
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COUPLES RETREAT
https://www.julietenner.love/couples-retreat
NTM Community Day
https://julietenner.thrivecart.com/ntm-community-day/
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Do you put your relationship, your partner or each other, below the dishes or the laundry? Have you ended up being ships in the night, co-habitating, but never really connecting? We all want to be chosen as partners, not someone’s vehicle of convenience. So let’s explore how to shift where you’re at!
In this episode we discuss:
- What do you need to be more interesting, or interested, than the dishes or the laundry?
- The waves of attraction and repulsion are normal in long-term relationship
- Your partner used to be the thing that you valued most
- Why is relationship sex and your partner last on the list now?
- Habits and patterns are learnt and can become armoury
- Reducing your partner down to ‘oh, you just want sex’
- Bringing your sexual connection back as sacred
- Growth that feels confronting to contemplate
FIND OUT MORE ABOUT:
COUPLES RETREAT
https://www.julietenner.love/couples-retreat
NTM Community Day
https://julietenner.thrivecart.com/ntm-community-day/
To explore feminine embodiment, intimacy and relationship in Honey Club with Julie, visit https://julietenner.love/
To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ -
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Lost at sea, asking yourself “who am I…and who are my people?” But you don’t quite know where you fit in? Let’s let go of old cultural narratives of cattiness and competitiveness in female friendships and let’s move towards forging friendships that expand, soften and inspire you as a woman, mother and lover.
In this episode we discuss:
- Knowing your values and where your people hang out
- Being brave and authentic
- Self-sabotage on friendship-seeking journeys
- The insidious ways performance leads to exhaustion
- When you’re infatuated, you’re hiding parts of yourself
- Infatuation will lead to resentment, and undermine the friendship
- Feeling lonely and isolated because YOU have shifted, but your friendships haven’t
- Manifesting and being an energetic match for the friendships you seek
To explore feminine embodiment, intimacy and relationship in Honey Club with Julie, visit https://julietenner.love/
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We all grew up on a diet of fairytales, romcoms, and Hollywood romance - and if this is you, too, you might feel that your relationship is wrong for you. We want you to know that ALL relationships have seasons of repulsion. So let’s work with your forces of attraction and repulsion in your relationship.
In this episode we discuss:
- Why repulsion is normal and how it benefits you
- Attraction comes from having your values met, or outsourcing parts you haven’t owned yet
- Change your psychology to change how feel around your partner
- Disconnection from them means connection to you
- Move faster through seasons of repulsion by owning what’s yours
- There’s nothing wrong with you or them; repulsion is a function of relationship
- The more open you are to the wisdom of repulsion, the faster you move through it
- You’re not seeing him for him, you’re seeing a comparison
- Chemistry happens before the physical body responds
- Chemistry is created in the mind
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Don’t we all love a good avoidance strategy? Are you sick of your own BS yet?! Are you ready for change? Let’s stop sabotaging growth by tripping over the same challenges over and over again. Bring on the fast, effective change, now!
In this episode we discuss:
- When you’re on the cusp of great change, and how to set yourself up for it
- Going beyond ‘I can’t show up’
- Trying to have everything sorted before you begin
- Your window of change means you’re often in survival mode
- Your environment influences whether you rise to your skillset or fall to your conditioning
- Leading yourself towards growth, rather than waiting for change
- Surviving on micro-satisfactions
- Crowding out your own expansion
- Knowing how and why you are where you are
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Your desire to have what you don’t yet have, requires you to behave in ways you’ve not yet behaved. Either, you’re going to choose fear, and end up in fate, over and over again - or you’re going to choose fate, and open up to destiny. Which one will you choose?…
In this episode we discuss:
- Fear protecting us from wanting to make the change we seek
- The physiological and psychological feedback is the same in choosing faith and fear
- When you choose fear, you and your world shrink
- When you choose faith, you and your world expand
- Welcoming the eustress that’s required to make the change you say you want
- When you’re having difficulty initiating the change you want
- When you’re stuck in negative loops and justifying it
- The fulility of wanting a different life, but staying in the life you’ve created
- The illusion of control and certainty
- Asking how else this might look
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To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ -
Are you noticing challenging feelings coming up in your motherhood? Are you noticing little whispers in your conscious and gentle parenting mind that seem to shame your anger, aggression and frustration?
So let’s move beyond the patriarchal programming of sugar and spice and all things nice, to embrace your wholeness as a woman and a mother.
In this episode we discuss:
- How we feel about expressions of anger and aggression in our children
- When you hit your edges of self-worth in your anger and frustration
- That habit of flicking off ownership and making it someone else’s fault
- Our strong desire to get back into being ‘kind’
- Pedestalling and infatuating with being calm and spacious
- The invitation to see and love more of ourselves and others
- Feedback that your values are changing
- Anger is the war-cry against the mental and emotional-labour jail
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Do you find yourself in a persistent dynamic where you’re completely fed up with the pattern…but yet you’re still here?
Do you find yourself asking “I want your help and advice! But I’ve already tried all the things” OR “It’s because they’re not/they can’t/they won’t…”
Babes, what if you’re just not ready for change? Let us help you hold yourself here.
In this episode we discuss:
- When you find yourself in futility and at the edges of your own window of tolerance
- You’re an energetic match for the reality you’re existing in
- Energy organises itself around a belief system
- Feeling vindicated in the problem being outside of you
- Recognising the pieces of you that are averse to change
- Allowing for change when you don’t also have a handbrake on
- Your suffering is relative to the degree you’re in resistance or surrender
- You’re not ready to have a conversation with ‘them’ if you’re not ready to have a conversation with yourself
- Surrendering to being the student and letting the teacher teach you
- How to love yourself when you’re choosing to stay where you are
To explore feminine embodiment, intimacy and relationship in Honey Club with Julie, visit https://julietenner.love/
To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ -
The daily grind of family life can have a us feeling like we don’t recognise who we are, and feeling anything but calm. Yet at the same time, berating ourselves for not being the calm, perfect mother. Even the best family calendar in the world will not save you from family chaos.
So let us help you get comfy in chaos, so you’re more available to find the calm.
In this episode we discuss:
- Making chaos safe in your nervous system
- Over-infatuation with calm
- Building your tolerance for chaos
- Pairing the chaos with something meaningful
- If you don’t have awareness of who you really are, you’re more attached to who you’re supposed to be
- Authenticity includes chaos
- Rising above your daily kryptonite triggers
- Finding the right buffers for you, so you can feel more connected to you
- Doing something that creates resistance or creativity
- Remembering it’s not all on you
- Action planning your day to keep you on track
- Knowing your priorities when chaos arrives
- Bringing gentleness and compassion to yourself
- A problem shared is a problem halved
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To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ -
Join us for an insightful conversation filled with tips and encouragement to help you thrive in your friend and romantic relationships. Balancing friendships and family as a busy mum can be tricky, but it’s crucial you maintain both relationships as part of your overall well-being and happiness. We dive into how different stages of motherhood require unique approaches to making friendships work, and learn how integrating family needs into your social life can create a supportive and fulfilling community. We’ll tackle the common feelings of guilt and societal pressure that come with spending time away from family, providing practical strategies to navigate and overcome these challenges.
In this episode, we discuss:
⁃guarding against romantic relationships needing to be everything
⁃Friendships making you a better mother and lover
⁃Creating an integrated community with your family
⁃When you WANT to ‘go out’ but you can’t - bringing your flexibility and adaptability to make it work
⁃Hosting so you don’t have to get babysitters
⁃Allowing your kids to see parents as people and setting a framework up for them for adult relationships
⁃Without conscious scheduling family or work needs WILL crowd out your social needs
⁃Avoiding resentment and burnout with relational boundaries
⁃Gently separating out needing to be needed to create space for what you want to call in
⁃The needs of others will always be there, so how do you find more of you by putting in place limits without guilt
To explore feminine embodiment, intimacy and relationship in Honey Club with Julie, visit https://julietenner.love/
To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ -
In this episode, we dive into the heart of authentic connections. We explore the journey of finding those magical women who become our trusted confidantes and lifelong friends. How do you cultivate deep, honest relationships in a world full of surface-level interactions? Join us as we share insights, stories, and practical tips on building genuine bonds with like-minded women.
Whether you're seeking new friendships or looking to deepen existing ones, this conversation will inspire you to embrace the beauty of true companionship.
In this episode we discuss:
- Be available, put yourself out there and trust your attraction force
- Do you know what you’re looking for?
- Conscious questions on why you don’t have it yet
- Going first and showing up for the relationship
- The law of the one and the many
- Where are you available and where are you unavailable for the connection you seek
- We’re all working through childhood stuff on our ‘safety to be seen’
- Craving connection and sabotaging depth
- The ego death required to really be seen
- Stop looking for “same”, look for diverse, with shared values
- Soothe the socially anxious part of you rather than let it lead you
- Beyond the full bodied ‘yes’
- Being honest rather than glossy
- Individuation from who you are and who your child is
- Creating lifelong friendships that hold you
To explore feminine embodiment, intimacy and relationship in Honey Club with Julie, visit https://julietenner.love/
To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ -
When you know you’re stuck in a negative loop about your child, how do you prevent it becoming part of their identity? Let’s give ourselves permission to feel the feelings and stretch our thinking beyond the polarisation.
In this episode we discuss:
- Finding the drawbacks of how you think they ‘should’ be
- Moving beyond seeing this trait as the most dominant part of their personality
- Supporting your kids to work on those tricky traits in a healthy way
- Getting out of negative thought loops by thinking wider
- The reflection of what we’re disowning within ourselves
- The impact we have as parents to shape our child’s self-perception
- Recognising the story you’re telling yourself
- Looking for where our children are the opposite of how we’re seeing them
- Creating an ecosystem that supports diversity
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To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ -
When you feel like you’re passing ships, or living parallel lives, it can be incredibly difficult to surrender and relax into life and relationship when you come back together. So let’s prepare for re-integration!
In this episode we give you the ‘Getting to shore kit’ where we cover:
- Taking steps towards your goals, not just digging backwards
- Self-sabotage moves in intimacy
- Bringing your expert mothering pivot-skills into your relationship
- Playing the who-has-it-harder game
- Making yourself replaceable
- Creating a structure to support you letting go
- Making relationship more of a priority
- Connecting to yourself to be available for connecting with them
- Allowing your walls to drop
- Supporting yourself to have a thriving relationship
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How do you lean into trusting your child and trusting yourself when the weight of advice, information, research and authorities are bearing down on you?
What if you could create a lean-back effect that makes parenting and holding yourself easier, by overlaying a really beautiful and basic blueprint of what your children are trying to work out, integrate and establish?
This is what we offer you in this week’s podcast.
In this episode we discuss:
- Leaning into trusting your child rather than the intellectual
- Affirming safety for healthy development
- Parenting the fears of ourselves
- Creating physical safety vs nervous system safety
- Our children borrow a sense of safety from our own narratives
- Am I okay? Is the world okay? Am I lovable?
- When children test the limits of behaviour and safety in a relationship
- What each stage of parenting requires of you as a mother
- The developmental overlay framework by Duey Freeman
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To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ -
Family freeloading on your unpaid labour is REAL. So what is service, and what is enabling/over-functioning? It requires you to hold high expectations and a level of self-worth on your minimum standards for how others treat you, and how you treat yourself.
In this episode we discuss:
- It’s overfunctioning when you’re running from a threat
- It’s service when you’re connected to your heart
- It’s enabling when you limit their potential for growth
- The paradox of holding ‘not being liked’ and maintaining love and respect in a relationship
- Watching your co-dependent merge tendencies, rather than checking in on your greater alignment
- Subconscious tendencies to stack more load on ‘easier’ kids
- Sibling conflict as a way to balance family systems
- Self-worth as a barometer for what you tolerate in your home
- A willingness to be disliked by your child as you call them to accountability
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Firstly, ouch. That’s a hard place to be. How do you get out of the burnout and resentment cycles and into a parenting relationship that feels more equitable?
First, you’ve got to look at why you’re overfunctioning, what your emotional set point is, and how you can step out of the way. So let’s get on the co-parenting train!
In this episode we discuss:
- Our motherhood can be shaped by how supported or unsupported we feel
- Feeling trapped and alone
- Trauma responses of self-sufficiency and people-pleasing
- Our own ‘puff-up’ and ‘beat-down’ cycles
- How to hold your own personal standards
- Releasing your trauma responses on your partner
- Your partner’s parenting relationship is not yours to steer or control
- Being okay in your lean-back
- Trusting your kids to build their own relationships
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To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ -
When you put a ring on it, the work is not done. But we can tend to find ourselves working our current relationship off an old program and set of agreements. There’s only freedom if you’re choosing it, so let’s talk about how to get out of feeling trapped.
In this episode we discuss:
- Your own confirmation bias
- Whatever you look for, you find
- Limiting beliefs that cap what you want and ask for
- The discontent of relationship pushing you into choosing yourself
- Dedicating years to undervalued care work
- Getting back the pieces you think are missing
- How your body reflects your value system
- Partnering with someone who has the opposite values to you
- Renegotiating relationship terms
- Less pressure and more ease when you stop expecting your partner to be everything
- Resourcing yourself and your life for more
- Finding freedom rather than convincing yourself to stay
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To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ -
What is it with the “mid-life crisis”? And why do relationship break-downs often bear the brunt of it?
When your shut-down becomes apathetic, and you’ve given up on bringing your needs into the relationship…and then the relationship ends, often, he’s blindsided.
Typically, when you blow up a relationship, you’re seeking a release from an overburdened, over-stressed life. What would it be like, if you considered these things first, before you make a big decision…?To explore feminine embodiment, intimacy and relationship in Honey Club with Julie, visit https://julietenner.love/
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We all hope on a wing and a prayer that it will all turn out okay. That all our agonising over conscious parenting, pays off. In the euphoric aftermath of Julie’s son’s 18th, she shares the lead-up, the hot tips, and the unexpected jelly shots that brought family together.
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To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ -
When we’re trying so hard to mother in ways that we were not mothered, we can find we exhaust ourselves at the altar of ‘perfection’. What would it look like to stop parenting from a place of lack or fear, and start parenting from a place of love and wellbeing. Let’s find out…
In this episode we discuss:
- The need to overperform to feel okay
- Parenting from a place of lack, fear and anxiety
- Being socialised into intensive mothering, with an endless capacity
- Venomous blame cycles, vs overflow of service where we feel balanced and fulfilled
- Pushing and performing, vs feeling good in your motherhood - We adapt to the environment, privilege included
- They will not appreciate what their ‘set point’ is - We can’t save our children from having voids
- Make sure you take your wellbeing with you
- Have areas of your life that are nurtured outside of your children
- Taking separation personally, and clawing your relationship back
- Looking at your child’s movement towards you and away from you as normal, rather than ending up in guilt and shame
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To explore conscious parenting and inspiring motherhood in Reimagining Motherhood with Bridget, visit https://www.bridgetwood.life/ - Mehr anzeigen
