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Summary
In this episode, Jess and Savanna discuss their personal struggles with mental health, the impact of seasonal changes, and the dynamics of dating. They share insights on navigating emotional challenges, the importance of self-care, and the complexities of adult responsibilities, including moving and managing personal space. The dialogue highlights the significance of friendships and support systems in overcoming life's hurdles.
Jess and Savanna discuss the challenges of navigating rental situations, the impact of frequent moves on their ability to create a sense of home, and the emotional complexities of new relationships after experiencing past trauma. They explore themes of trust, betrayal, and the reevaluation of love and commitment, while also sharing exciting new opportunities that have arisen in their lives. In this engaging conversation, Jess and Savanna explore various themes ranging from the secret lives of celebrities to the influence of Martha Stewart. They share their thoughts on adult sleepovers, the importance of personal space in relationships, and their opinions on popular culture, including Netflix shows and cartoons. The discussion is filled with humor and relatable insights, making it a delightful listen for anyone interested in modern life and relationships. In this conversation, Jess and Savanna delve into complex themes surrounding relationships, personal growth, and coping with grief. They explore the dynamics of unhealthy relationships, the impact of loss, and the importance of mental health. The discussion highlights the need for self-reflection and therapy, while also touching on the challenges of navigating friendships and personal connections. The conversation concludes with plans for the future and reflections on their experiences.
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Summary
In this lively episode, Jess and Savanna discuss their taco preferences, share personal updates about their friendship, and delve into Savanna's recent dating experiences. They explore the importance of communication and boundaries in new relationships, reflect on past experiences, and critique the authenticity of Sav’s ex’s dating profile, and honesty and self-awareness in dating.
Savanna and Jess explore various topics including the challenges of online dating, the complexities of parenting, body image issues, accountability in relationships, family dynamics, and a listener's submission about a cheating scandal. They share personal anecdotes and insights, creating a relatable and engaging dialogue. In this conversation, Savanna and Jess explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on the importance of recognizing red flags, the role of women's intuition, and the dynamics of trust and technology. They discuss how women often perceive potential in partners, sometimes overlooking warning signs, and the significance of open communication and transparency in relationships.
The conversation also touches on the importance of civic engagement, particularly voting, and how personal growth and self-awareness play crucial roles in navigating relationships. In this conversation, Savanna and Jess explore the complexities of friendship, particularly among women, and how these relationships evolve over time. They discuss the dynamics of friendships with men, the importance of emotional support, and the impact of their childhood experiences on their current relationships. The conversation also touches on parenting and the lessons they hope to impart to their children about friendship and kindness.
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Summary
In this episode, Jess and Sav celebrate Jess’s 32nd birthday!
The ladies chat a potential new love interest in Savanna’s life, and what moving on looks like when you’re finally ready!
They delve into themes of genuine connections, parenting challenges, pop culture reflections, and the importance of mental health awareness. They explore the nuances of relationships, the emotional weight of parenting decisions, and the impact of celebrity struggles on mental health, all while sharing personal anecdotes and insights.
Other topics this episode include: The complexities of trauma, relationships, the impact of religious upbringing on intimacy, the importance of women's rights and empowerment, particularly in the context of parenting and personal choices.
Jess & Sav finish out the episode updating listeners of the exciting guests coming to the show over the next few months!
Chapters
00:00 Celebrating Birthdays and Personal Triumphs
02:58 Navigating Relationships and Self-Discovery
06:00 Exploring New Connections and Future Possibilities
09:04 The Complexity of Love and Emotional Vulnerability
12:02 Anticipation and Excitement for New Beginnings
18:23 Exploring Genuine Connections
21:22 Navigating Parenthood and Education
24:29 Pop Culture Reflections and Reality TV
30:11 Mental Health Awareness and Celebrity Struggles
35:24 Exploring Trauma and Relationships
37:54 The Impact of Religious Upbringing on Intimacy
39:12 Navigating Politics and Women's Rights
46:20 Empowerment and Choices in Parenting
48:32 Anticipating Future Conversations and Guests
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Summary
In this Episode, Jess and Savanna explore various themes surrounding dating, personal growth, and the impact of past trauma on their lives. They discuss the allure of exclusive dating apps, the challenges of online dating, and the importance of self-reflection and emotional healing. The conversation delves into their experiences with childhood memories, the effects of trauma on relationships, and the complexities of navigating personal struggles in a public forum. In this conversation, Jess and Savanna discuss the challenges of motherhood, the unrealistic expectations set by social media, and the importance of authenticity in parenting.
They share their experiences with criticism from others and the emotional weight that comes with being a parent. The discussion also touches on the significance of self-care, friendships, and the bond with pets as a source of emotional support. Jess and Savanna explore the complexities of therapy, relationships, and family dynamics. They discuss the challenges of seeking help, the impact of ADHD on relationships, and the importance of strong personalities in navigating personal growth. The conversation also delves into the expectations placed on family members and the difficulties of addressing toxicity within familial relationships. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for honesty and vulnerability in maintaining healthy connections. In this conversation, Jess and Savanna explore the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and taking ownership of one's actions.
They discuss personal growth through self-reflection and the challenges of navigating life changes. The conversation also touches on the power of metaphors in understanding personal experiences and concludes with plans for future podcast episodes.
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Summary
In this episode, Jess shares a harrowing experience of a hospital visit with Amari, highlighting the importance of safety and quick decision-making in parenting. The discussion transitions into family dynamics, the challenges of managing health and medication, and the excitement of kids' sports activities. Jess also reflects on a birthday celebration for her partner, followed by a shocking dating story shared by Savanna, emphasizing the need for thorough research when meeting new people.
Savanna and Jess reflect on their high school experiences, sharing nostalgic memories and humorous anecdotes about their time at a private Christian school. They delve into the eerie aspects of their old school, including its haunted history and the lack of supervision during their gym classes. The discussion transitions to the impact of their upbringing on their parenting styles, particularly regarding issues of modesty and gender expectations. Jess opens up about her personal experiences with pregnancy and infant loss, emphasizing the importance of awareness and support for those going through similar struggles. The conversation is a blend of humor, reflection, and heartfelt sharing, highlighting the complexities of growing up and navigating adulthood.
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Alright guys, IT’S OUR 30TH EPISODE!!
SummaryIn this episode, Jess and Savanna dive into their personal experiences with seasonal depression, the challenges of self-compassion, and the impact of past relationships on their mental health. They also discuss the complexities of modern dating, including the difficulties of navigating online dating platforms and the pressures of societal expectations.
The conversation takes a turn towards celebrity gossip, particularly surrounding Diddy and the controversies that have emerged, highlighting the intersection of fame and personal struggles. They delve into the darker aspects of fame, highlighting the prevalence of abusers in the industry. The discussion shifts to parenting challenges, sharing insights on teaching children valuable lessons and celebrating developmental milestones. The conversation concludes with lighthearted exchanges about unpopular opinions and the joys of pet ownership, creating a relatable and entertaining dialogue.
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Summary
In this engaging episode, Jess and Savanna share about their week which included their pets, concerts, mishaps at Target, and the challenges of dating during football season. They delve into the complexities of ex-relationships, particularly focusing on how to handle when a past partner fails to uphold their financial promises.
The discussion also highlights the importance of celebrating small victories, such as birthdays and acts of kindness, while navigating family dynamics and the pressures of being a caregiver. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the significance of emotional expression and the challenges of balancing personal needs with those of loved ones.
The ladies chat about the importance of friendship and planning a girls' getaway, their thoughts on the Menendez Brothers documentary, emotional connections to family memories, and the challenges of parenting. They also discuss current pop culture events, ethical dilemmas in personal training, and the vivid dreams of Savanna's nephew, Liam, which lead to discussions about mental health and school fears. The episode wraps up with light-hearted unpopular opinions and exciting plans for future podcast episodes.
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Summary
In this episode, Jess and Sav dive into their personal lives, discussing the challenges of parenting, particularly around bullying, and the importance of communication. They reflect on their experiences with social media, the impact of viral content, and the humor found in current political events. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of dating and the nuances of communication in modern relationships, all while maintaining a light-hearted and humorous tone.
Sav and Jess delve into the complexities of modern dating, exploring themes of emotional investment, relationship expectations, and the impact of societal norms. They discuss personal experiences with dating dynamics, the concept of limerence, and the influence of media and public figures on perceptions of relationships. The conversation also touches on community support initiatives, particularly in health-related contexts, emphasizing the importance of collective action and empathy.
The conversation concludes with a heartfelt call for community support for a friend in need, emphasizing the power of collective action and compassion.
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Summary
In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss various topics including The Bachelorette finale, the trad wife trend, and TV shows they are watching. They express their disappointment with The Bachelorette finale and discuss the concept of trad wives, highlighting the importance of women pursuing their own dreams and not losing their identity in motherhood. They also mention TV shows like The Secret Life of Mormon Wives, Tell Me Lies, and The Perfect Couple.
The conversation covers topics such as the birth of a friend's baby, the concept of finding closure in a breakup, and the challenges of communication and understanding in a relationship. They discuss the importance of unconditional love, vulnerability, and taking ownership for one's actions. They also touch on the frustration of not being heard or understood by a partner and the need for mutual respect and support.
Sav and Jess discuss the importance of self-awareness and not projecting their own desires onto their children. They also share a heartwarming moment about Jess's daughter finding joy in playing volleyball. They then share some unpopular opinions, including their dislike for Sabrina Carpenter and the need for updated glue guns. They also talk about the obsession with tennis and the negative effects of social media. Lastly, Sav opens up about her recent breakup and the growth she has experienced. In this final part of the conversation, Jess and Sav discuss the importance of therapy and working through issues in their marriages. They reflect on the unrealistic expectations they had when they got married and the need to address deeper issues in therapy. They also discuss the challenges of communication and the importance of being gentle with their partners' feelings. They express their unconditional love for their partners and the commitment to work through any challenges, except for cheating. They also share their frustrations with the person who caused the end of Sav's engagement and express their support for each other.
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Summary
In this Episode, Jess and Sav catch up on their weeks and discuss Katie's wedding. They talk about the excitement leading up to the wedding, the Airbnb mishaps, and the kids starting school. They also touch on the topic of children getting their hair done at a young age.
Katie joins the conversation and shares her experience of the rehearsal dinner and the wedding. They discuss the delicious food, the dancing, and the overall joy of the event.
They also talk about the emotions and post-wedding blues they are feeling. They cover various moments and experiences from the wedding, including the importance of turning off phones during the ceremony, the heartfelt vows, the misplacement of vow booklets, funny moments with the videographer and photographer, dancing and partying, and the energetic entrances of the bridal party.
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Summary
In this part of the episode, Jess and Sav discuss various topics, including dental issues, upcoming weddings, and their personal experiences with relationships. They also talk about the benefits of therapy and the importance of finding a therapist who understands and connects with you. The conversation ends with a lighthearted discussion about mispronounced words.
They also talk about a strange email they received from a listener and discuss Jess’s recent dream about Sav’s ex fiance and what it may have meant. They touch on the pressure for influencers to continue creating content after giving birth and the importance of taking time for rest and recovery.
In the final part of the episode, Sav and Jess discuss their experiences with Instacart and grocery shopping at different stores. They also touch on their favorite reality TV shows, including Love Island UK and The Bachelorette. The conversation ends with excitement for Katie's upcoming wedding.
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Summary
In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss various topics including work stress, allergies, personal hair care, landlord issues, and their dating/marriage situations. They both express feeling burnt out and tired, and Jess contemplates making a career change. They also talk about the challenges of being a woman and dealing with menstrual cycles and how that affects the way they show up for themselves and others daily.
Sav shares her detachment issues in her situation-ship with John, who is busy with work and internships. They discuss the importance of setting expectations and being open and honest in relationships. They talk Bachelorette', back-to-school shopping, and the challenges of therapy in relationships. They share personal experiences and offer advice on navigating these situations.
And in this final parts of the episode, Jess and Sav discuss relationships, parenting, and personal growth. They touch on the frequency of sex in a relationship, the challenges of co-parenting, and the importance of open communication and acceptance in a partnership. They also discuss their evolving views on religion and the need to let go of judgment and control. The conversation ends with a lighthearted discussion about the reality TV show Love is Blind UK and their plans for the upcoming week.
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Summary:
In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss their dislike for ASMR videos and their fascination with watching young girls on social media. They also talk about their experiences with makeup and receiving PR packages. Sav shares her recent experience at a hair salon and Jess talks about her daughter's dental appointments. Sav and Jess discuss their childhood experiences with orthodontists and reminisce about getting braces. They also talk about their children growing up in a different technological era and how they are more advanced than they were at their age. They mention their experiences with MySpace and the difficulty of accessing their old accounts. They then transition to discussing the latest episode of The Bachelorette and share their thoughts on the contestants. They also talk about the TV shows Lost and Heroes. Lastly, they mention getting their hair done and the importance of finding a backup hairstylist. In this final part of the conversation, Jess and Sav discuss the strong connections they form with their clients as hairstylists. They talk about the different phases of life they go through with their clients, from breakups to marriages to pregnancies. They emphasize the importance of trust and the role of a hairstylist as a listener and sometimes even a therapist. They also touch on the topic of child safety and the importance of teaching children to seek help from trustworthy individuals in case they get separated from their parents.
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Summary:
In this episode, Sav is BACK! Jess and Sav catch up on their lives and discuss various topics, including dental procedures, childhood memories, their experiences with substances, and their fears of jumping out of a plane. They also celebrate Sav's recent award!
They chat about relationships, amusement park experiences, The Bachelorette, and tampons. They discuss their experiences with relationships and the importance of finding someone who supports and loves them.
Sav's mom's accidentally sending a screenshot of her fiance's genitalia to the family, the strict rules about dog poop in Sav's friend's apartment complex, and the challenges Sav is facing with her landlord and the lack of privacy in her current living situation. They also touch on the frequency of sex in relationships and the importance of communication and understanding each other's needs.
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*Congrats Sav & Indigo Hair Studio on winning Best of Rhode Island's East Bay Color Specialists! *
Summary:
This week, Jess and Tim have a solo episode where they answer relationship-focused questions. They discuss their love for each other, their fears in the relationship, moments of vulnerability, and triggers.
They talk about trust, personal phone calls, and their future together. They also share their appreciation for each other and talk about their favorite moments in their relationship. The conversation ends with a mention of a local hair studio that they recommend.
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Summary:
In this episode, Sav and Jess catch up on their day and discuss various topics, including family outings, shopping, personal milestones, and annoying neighbors. They also mention upcoming plans, such as a trip to Hershey Park. They chat about political divisions, The Bachelorette, and Love Island and share their thoughts on the show.
They discuss bosses confessing their love to employees, having sex with exes, and dealing with the aftermath of a breakup, overstimulation, and a discussion about an 'Am I the Asshole' situation involving a Muslim woman asking her friend to take down bachelorette party photos.
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Summary:
** Trigger warning** There is mention of Sexual Assault in this episode.
This episode Jess & Sav are going deeper! Finally, the long awaited "Baby Daddy" origin story!
They discuss Jess's past relationship with her daughter's father, and recalls the night when everything started. Jess reflects on the manipulative and hurtful behavior of her baby daddy and how it has affected her. She also discusses the possibility of him wanting to be involved in their child's life in the future.
They reflect on the lack of remorse and responsibility shown by the sperm donor and the impact it has had on Jess's life. Despite the trauma, Jess has found healing and strength in her journey as a mother. They also discuss the importance of keeping records and documentation in situations like these. Overall, the conversation highlights the resilience and growth that Jess has experienced throughout her journey.
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Summary:
In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss various topics including Katie's bridal shower, dental issues, books, music, and upcoming plans. They also talk about the importance of friendships and shared experiences. Sav expresses her gratitude for having her friend Jen back in her life and the joy of experiencing moments with someone else. They also touch on the challenges of introducing their dogs to each other.
They touch on other various topics, including the dominance of dogs, the challenges of living alone, giving cell phones to kids, and famous people joining OnlyFans to sell pictures of their feet. Sav finds herself in a Google search results, business awards, parenting, and nudity around children.
They express their concerns about the potential consequences of having an OnlyFans account and the impact it could have on their children's lives. They also discuss the challenges and rewards of being self-made business owners. The conversation then shifts to Nick Cannon and his 12 children with multiple women, and the question of how involved he is in their lives. They also touch on the topic of nudity around children and the age at which it becomes inappropriate. In this final part of the conversation, Jess and Sav reflect on their personal growth and the support they've received from their listeners. They discuss their favorite TV shows and plan to share embarrassing dating stories from their audience in the next episode.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Catching Up
00:34 Celebrating Milestones and Making Memories
06:51 The Power of Friendship
09:28 Exploring New Music
15:50 Attending Levitate Music Festival
21:56 The Importance of Shared Experiences
22:48 Considering Living Arrangements
23:15 The Aggression of Female Dogs
23:18 The Dynamics of Dog Dominance
25:29 The Challenges of Living Alone
31:18 Bounce Houses and Family Fun
33:33 The Controversy of Children and Cell Phones
44:13 Lily Allen and the Rise of OnlyFans
45:52 Nick Cannon's Insured Testicles and Co-Parenting Challenges
54:33 The Controversy of Nudity: Jenna Bush Hager's Perspective
01:00:18 Parenting Boys vs. Girls: Different Experiences and Challenges
01:06:41 The Importance of Empathy in Parenting
01:07:30 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Listener Support
01:19:29 TV Shows and Documentaries: Recommendations and Discussion
01:23:17 Calling for Embarrassing Dating Stories from the Audience
01:27:34 podcast intro1.mp4
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Summary:
In this episode, Sav was missing due to being a bomb boss working babe, so Tim stepped in as the resident understudy! They discuss various topics, including TV shows, listener topics, step-parent boundaries, root canals, and therapy. They share their thoughts and experiences on each topic, providing insights and personal anecdotes. The conversation touches on the challenges of co-parenting, the importance of communication, and the dynamics of step-parenting. They also discuss the idea of billing for playdates and the pressure of time in relation to having children. Overall, the conversation is light-hearted and humorous, with both Jess and Tim sharing their perspectives. In this conversation, Jess and Seth discuss various topics including boundaries, gender identity, love languages, and overstimulation. They explore the dynamics of their relationship and how they navigate different situations. They also express gratitude for their listeners and encourage them to leave a five-star review and share the podcast with others.
Takeaways:
Sweet Tooth on Netflix is recommended as a binge-worthy show
Step-parent boundaries can be challenging, especially when both parents are involved
Root canals can be painful and require specialized treatment
It is important to avoid badmouthing the other parent in front of the child
Therapy can be beneficial for improving communication and resolving issues
Billing for playdates can be seen as inappropriate and may strain relationships
The pressure of time can be felt more by women when it comes to having children Setting and respecting boundaries is important in a relationship
Understanding and accepting different gender identities is crucial
Adapting love languages to meet your partner's needs can strengthen the relationship
Managing overstimulation and finding coping mechanisms is essential
Expressing gratitude for listeners and encouraging support
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Summary:
In this episode Jess and Sav discuss their recent bachelorette party weekend and reflect on their experiences. They talk about recovering from the weekend, their social batteries, and the fun activities they did. They also mention the challenges of being in a predominantly white area and the importance of respecting dress codes. Overall, they had a great time and enjoyed the company of their friends. In this part of the conversation, Jess and Sav discuss their experience on a boat cruise and their thoughts on the TV show Perfect Match. They also talk about their plans for future cruises and their preferences for cremation over traditional burial. They share their perspectives on the cost of funerals and the idea of affordable afterlife options. The conversation ends with Jess addressing rumors about her marital status. In this conversation, Sav and Jess discuss the different types of moms and the pressures of motherhood. They talk about feeling the need to constantly be in contact with their children and the guilt that comes with being away from them. They also discuss feeling pressured by societal expectations and the added pressure of being a black mother. They share personal experiences and reflect on the importance of self-care and setting boundaries.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Recovery
02:50 Activities: Picnic, Photoshoot, Pool Party, Baywatch Cruise, Bike Ride
08:01 Challenges in a Predominantly White Area
15:48 Addressing Inappropriate Behavior
20:30 Fun Times on a Boat Cruise
22:20 Binge-Watching Perfect Match
26:36 Reflections on Father's Day
28:33 Thoughts on Cremation and Afterlife Options
32:54 Addressing Marital Status Rumors
38:00 Different Types of Moms
44:30 Feeling Pressured by Motherhood
47:01 The Added Pressure of Being a Black Mother
49:18 The Fear of Not Doing Enough
52:04 Proud Moments as a Mom
56:00 Navigating the Pressures of Business and Personal Life
01:01:58 Lighthearted Banter and Reminders
01:02:24 podcast intro1.mp4
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